At one recent Indianapolis meeting, more than 30 brave individuals gathered to discuss an often-taboo topic: race and white privilege in America.
Organizer Delana Ivey preps the group. Should anyone feel uncomfortable at any time, or feel as if they may violate one of the 10 rules posted on the door, they are welcome to leave, no questions asked. For most in the room, this isnāt their first time. Theyāve spoken outside of their social limits before on race issues, a topic some describe as āuncomfortable.ā
About 10 percent of the groupās members are African-Americans and Latinos from the Indianapolis community, the rest are white.
Ivey represents Power Parent Indianapolis, a group of parents and community residents organized to review curriculum, understand and access resources, and work toward holding teachers, school administration, parents and elected officials accountable to the educational needs of all children.
The white privilege discussion series began a few weeks ago and has covered social justice and education.
āThe crowd just seems to get bigger and bigger and itās very diverse,ā said Ivey, adding that she hopes to see more African-Americans participate. āThe whole idea is Blacks havenāt heard whites talk about this and vice versa. How are we supposed to move forward as a community if we arenāt truly hearing each other?ā
Peggy McIntosh, author of the essay āWhite Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack,ā defines the concept of āwhite privilegeā thusly: āPrivilege exists when one group has something of value that is denied to others simply because of the groups they belong to, rather than because of anything theyāve done or failed to do. Access to privilege doesnāt determine oneās outcomes, but it is definitely an asset that makes it more likely that whatever talent, ability, and aspirations a person with privilege has will result in something positive for them.ā
Although this concept can be confused with white supremacy or separatism, they are not the same.
Dictionary.com defines white supremacy as āthe belief, theory, or doctrine that white people are inherently superior to people from all other racial groups, especially Black people, and are therefore rightfully the dominant group in any society.ā
The state of race relations is a crucial topic for the United States. For the last several years, violent clashes between white police officers and Black males have led many in the community to believe patrol officers should receive mandatory cultural and sensitivity training.
Since the late 90s, Gallup polls indicate that 12 percent fewer Black Americans believe a solution to Americaās racial problems will be found than white Americans. In June 2013, Gallup found 58 percent of whites versus 48 percent of Blacks believed a solution to Black-white relations would eventually be found.
The discussion on white privilege held in the Martindale-Brightwood neighborhood, displayed a range of opinions on the state of todayās racial matters. Many Black participants explained how self relieving it felt to explain their reality to someone who may live a different lifestyle, while white participants stated white privilege is something they donāt realize they were enjoying because it seems ānormalā for them.
Alex Gaines*, a white participant said he sees the difficulty people of color often face.
āItās not fair,ā he said. āBut itās also interesting to hear a Black person share their side of the story. When someone points out a privilege I may have because Iām white, it feels weird because I can realize my whiteness and how I may have the upper hand, but until someone does that, everything seems ānormal.āā
McIntosh lists in her essay the many privileges she enjoys simply because of her skin tone, things she didnāt realize until writing them down.
Some of these include: being in the company of people in her own race often, being able to go shopping without being harassed or followed; being able to use checks, credit cards or cash; knowing her skin color does not to work against the appearance of financial reliability; and asking to speak to the āperson in charge,ā knowing she will likely be introduced to a person of her same race.
Other privileges are more subtle: she can easily find posters, post-cards, picture books, greeting cards, dolls, toys and childrenās magazines featuring people of her race; she can chose makeup or bandages in āfleshā color and have them more or less match her skin; she can be late to a meeting without feeling that her tardy arrival may poorly reflect on her race; among other things.
She compares white privilege to an invisible package of unearned assets that can be cashed in each day.
āWhite privilege is like an invisible weightless knapsack of special provisions, maps, passports, codebooks, visas, clothes, tools, and blank checks,ā she notes.
Tim Wise, one of the nationās most prominent antiracist essayists, and creator of the educational film āWhite Like Me: Race, Racism, and White Privilege in America,ā believes white Americans have the luxury of being uninformed about Black or brown truth.
āWe donāt know because we donāt have to know, we are not tested on it,ā he mentioned. āIf I donāt know what people of color experience then what happens to me in the country is virtually nothing, but if people of color donāt know white reality better than white folks have to know it, then all hell breaks loose. People of color are going to have to know white history, white theater, white poetry, white drama. I know we donāt call it that but thatās the point.ā
He added that white Americans donāt realize the true extent of white cultural dominance. āThatās why for those that are confused as to why we donāt have a white history month, we have several,ā he noted. āThey are May, June, July and September, pretty much any month we havenāt designated as someone elseās.ā
Ivey said when one recent discussion ended at 7:30 p.m., many lingered to exchange views and perspectives.
āI was so sick of people being isolated when it came to talking about white privilege. I hear both sides from different parties but no one is talking. Parent Power is all about transformation although we engage with schools often.ā
For more information on White Privilege Community Talks, visit Facebook.com/pages/White-Privilege-Community-Talks. The next discussion will be held May 12 at 2605 E. 25th St. from 6 ā 8 p.m.
*Original names have been changed at the request of the interviewee.