As 2009 draws to a close, my mind drifts over the past 12 months and I assess my personal experiences as well as those of our nation and the world. I canāt help but think about the various experiences, triumphs and disappointments that Iām sure weāve all experienced.
However, what consumed my thoughts of 2009 the most were the lessons learned.
Perhaps the biggest lesson learned for many Americans was relative to the slumping economy, as the recession was the worst in modern history. As people were tested economically, some adopted an entirely new way of living that is not only beneficial during a recession, but will also prove helpful when the economic state of affairs improve.
I asked some friends and colleagues to share some of the lessons theyāve learned during the recession and the answers were insightful.
Hereās a summary:
Donāt rely on the government to correct our problems
While the government certainly plays a role in our lives, there are things that we can do as individuals to ensure that we have the necessities of life.
This recession has reinforced the need for us to work towards ensuring that our futures are secure. This means that we have to take responsibility for ourselves, as nothing the government promises is guaranteed. For instance, we canāt rely on social security once we get older, so retirement and rainy day savings should be intensified.
āI donāt feel comfortable with the governmentās promises. President Obama is doing some great things, but I understand the only way to be sure that my family and I are taken care of 20 years from now is for me and my wife to take the necessary precautions now. Iāve lost the sense of security that I felt 10 years ago,ā said 35-year-old Willie Winston.
The importance
of conserving resources
Many people have realized their overabundance of material possessions, and how in essence, none of it really means a thing.
āThe recession has taught me how to scale back,ā said Deidre Smith. āI was the type of person who had multiples of everything; the same style of slacks in five different colors, several coats and more shoes than I had days to wear them. I now realize that having so much of everything is not needed and itās definitely not practical. Iāve scaled down and I value my limited possessions far more than I did when I had things in excess.ā
Over the past couple of decades, Americans have become rather spoiledā¦spoiled with choices, material possessions and even spoiled with convenience. Such things have not only had adverse effects on the way weāre perceived by others around the world, but it has also negatively impacted the planet as global warming is a major cause of concern. This past year more than ever, people realized that less really is more.
The need to help others
Helping others sounds so basic, but its effects can last a lifetime. Years ago boxing great Muhammad Ali said, āService to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth.ā
What a true statement that has transcended time.
A person can do simple things to help someone out during tough economic times ā and it doesnāt always have to be a monetary extension of help. Sometimes something as basic as offering a listening ear, baby-sitting someoneās child for free, or simply giving a person a hug would do the trick. However, if you find yourself in the position to give money and there is a person in need, then, by all means give.
Despite the past 12 months of economic instability, there is still so much to be thankful for. Iām eagerly anticipating the experiences, joys and most certainly the lessons of 2010. I wish you Godās abundant blessings and grace throughout 2010. Happy New Year!